Every relationship gets boring and it will get boring after you’ve been together for years.
It’s always fun in the beginning. It’s always exciting when you’re getting to know each other.
It’s always thrilling to chase one another.
Eventually, it gets hard.
Eventually, it becomes difficult.
Eventually, it drains you.
That’s when people tend to quit and go look for someone else because “the spark is gone” and they want to feel wanted and admired and loved again.
But listen, that’s not how it’s supposed to be.
No, that’s not how it works.
It doesn’t have to be that way.
Even when it does get boring, that’s when you’re supposed to remember why you’re with that person in the first place and it’s never too late to find that happiness that you both once found together because the truth is, it’s always been there and it never left.
Even when it feels like feelings are fading, that’s when you’re supposed to know how much this person means to you and what losing them would be like because being able to love someone even when they’re being hard to love shows that your feelings never left.
Even when it feels like you’re done, that’s when you’re supposed to realize that no matter who you’re with, it’s always going to get “boring” so you might as well be with someone who’s willing to love you unconditionally and never give up on you.
By: Teddy Nguyen